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What is the right balance of alcohol to crying in the shower to revenge plots?

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Is it weird that I'm wearing his sweatshirt every night?

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Is it okay to unfriend anyone on social media that posts about their happy marriage?

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#stayoffsocialmediaonValentinesDay

Seven Months Ago...

Seven months ago, you called my your beautiful wife when you wished me a happy birthday. 

Now it's been almost a month since you said that you didn't love me any more and you wanted a divorce.

I know you want space. That you said leaving here was hard and you can't say all the things again. I heard what you said. I'm trying and I will do better. But I'm having a hard time.

Because I love you.

Maybe all this time you just didn't know it. My life would certainly be easier right now if I didn't. But I do. I love you.

I apologize for saying it now and when it may not make one iota of difference, or be what you want to hear. I have so many other things I want to say too, but that's really the most important. I'm sure I should be saying it in person or at least on the phone, but I don't think you want that. So you can be mad at me for sending this, but it feels wrong not to let you know.